messageTray: Expose Source icon as GObject property

As the notification redesign affects the API anyway, we can just
as well use the opportunity to modernize the code.

Turning the icon into a GObject property means we no longer need
a custom signal for change notifications, and the icon becomes
usable in bindings.

Since setting an `GThemedIcon` is common this also adds a convenience
property to set the icon name directly.

Part-of: <https://gitlab.gnome.org/GNOME/gnome-shell/-/merge_requests/3103>

js/ui/extensionSystem.js

@@ -833,7 +833,7 @@ class ExtensionUpdateSource extends MessageTray.Source {
         super._init(this._app.get_name());
     }
 
-    getIcon() {
+    get icon() {
         return this._app.app_info.get_icon();
     }